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Demi God Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 215 Location: England

Tell us of any problems you are having. No matter what it is, wether its a bit problem or a small problem. You can talk to us here at Alpha Centauri. We are your friends. We will always be here to listen and try to help you. So if you are having any problems. Feel free to let it all out here.

Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 12:53 am

Well okay i have a problem, well as many of you who been in to the gays, and bi's opinion topic knows i have had some what of a interesting week so far and well something has come up. You see i said that we were not going out yet, but well theirs a major dance/ball/formal thing coming up and well Hikaru(NickName, cause i don't feel right giving out her name) has decided to let me take her to the ball as her date, but theirs a big catch to it, it is going to be well like a test to see if see can handle guys in a dating relationship bases again, and well i really Really would like not to srew up and make it were i could lose her forever so, so now i am nervous as hell and to be honest really freaking out, cause what if i srew up somehow? Then she would never want to go out with guys again and i really don't think i could take that kind of blow, so i geuss what i am asking is does anyone have any pointers to maybe help me not be so nervous and scared, cause i would really like this to work and so would she on her own level.

Demi God Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 215 Location: England

This isnt mutch but in my experience alot of people have said to me "If its ment to be then it is meant to be" and for the most part ive found that its actually true. If your meant to be with her then you are, if not now then somewhere down the line and visa versa.

If you know her well then just try and be yourself? Shes after you not a different guy thats dating material. You've come this far so thers not mutch stopping you Smile

Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 1:52 am

Sonic74205 wrote:

This isnt mutch but in my experience alot of people have said to me "If its ment to be then it is meant to be" and for the most part ive found that its actually true. If your meant to be with her then you are, if not now then somewhere down the line and visa versa.

If you know her well then just try and be yourself? Shes after you not a different guy thats dating material. You've come this far so thers not mutch stopping you Smile

Thanks, the main reasons i feel so scared and nervous is that she is with out a doubt the most amazing person i have ever meet(But most people think me and her and the group we hang with are freaks Razz

) but your proably right

Demi God Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 215 Location: England

Heck normal is just another definition of being weird. Simply means your less unique Razz

Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 2:58 am

Well again Thanks for the advice.

Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 3:22 am

Well we are going out now, at first it felt a little weird but then as the night grew we seemed to get more closers, as far as if she felt good or not is a mysteir to me, as she haldy tells how she feels but i plan on asking her tommorow.

Demi God Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 215 Location: England

Congratulations! Im happy for you Smile

Im sure it will work out.

Posted: Tue May 23, 2006 2:30 am

ugh i have probs again but i don't really think they can be fixed on here, lets just say i am having a really hard time at the moment.

Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2007 11:19 pm

Mesa got problems again Sad

me sad... lol Really i am pretty depressed right now, and hurting am in a wheelchair now cause i got in a car wreck in december and messed my leg to crap.

Demi God Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 215 Location: England

I'm sorry to hear that patrick. How did it happen? If you don't mind me asking. Do you know how long it will be until your leg heals?

Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 8:09 pm

Sonic74205 wrote:

I'm sorry to hear that patrick. How did it happen? If you don't mind me asking. Do you know how long it will be until your leg heals?

Well to put it bluntly i sent my car off a icey brigde. I get to go on crutches soon, proably in 2 weeks.

Demi God Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 215 Location: England

Off an icey bridge?! OMG im glad your okay. How long ago was this?

Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 10:02 pm

december the first week in december.

Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 4:58 am

I HATE HAVING DEPRESSION, i hate it. ugh why is the world so dang cruel...